Windows: Fix crash when loading color fonts from data

When color fonts are loaded from data, the font returned will
be a DirectWrite engine even the hinting preference does not
require it. This would cause a crash as we unconditionally cast
the pointer to QWindowsFontEngine*.

Using GDI and the unique family name hack to load the font from
data works fine, but we need to make sure we reference count
the font resource in this case, so we have to implement the
setUniqueFamilyName() logic in the DirectWrite engine as well
for this specific case.

[ChangeLog][Windows] Fixed crash when loading color fonts from
data.

Task-number: QTBUG-55595
Change-Id: I05443e8a396105da68ac4872b48339130b86c7f6
Reviewed-by: Friedemann Kleint <Friedemann.Kleint@qt.io>
Reviewed-by: Lars Knoll <lars.knoll@qt.io>