For a testcase with thosands of items, I measured an increase
in shutdown time from 800ms to 7500ms, all spent in disconnect().
This is not acceptible, so we're choosing a different approach.

If items implement a invalidateSceneGraph slot, this function
will be called during shutdown. It should be made a proper virtual
in Qt 6. This approach costs very little.

Change-Id: I5970143cc0a0744955687e17586f0bb00c9afb26
Reviewed-by: Lars Knoll <lars.knoll@digia.com>